“I’m writing to thank you again, and let you know what a blessing it was to find you to do Gerry’s funeral service for our family. You made a difficult and emotional time bearable with your calm and understanding approach, and somehow managed to include everyone’s memories of Gerry’s varied life. The family were very happy on the day and many even said they had enjoyed it, with respect to the occasion, and that’s just how we wanted it.”
— Jean, London
“From the very first conversations with Ruth I felt comfort and totally at ease. It was just plain lovely to talk with her. She listened with empathy and kindness as I downloaded to her all of my mother’s life and stories. From there we created the framework of my mother’s funeral day, Ruth creating an incredibly meaningful, heartfelt order of service. Her incredibly well-crafted words were totally perfect to celebrate my mother’s life.
On the day, Ruth was tremendous; calm and incredibly organised, conveying huge warmth and love to all during the day. Although a very sad day, Ruth made it a wonderful celebration of Life. ”
— Neil, London
A unique funeral service
The importance of a funeral as part of the grieving process cannot be underestimated. It provides comfort for family and friends. It is a time to come together to acknowledge the loss of a loved one and to share stories and memories.
Through music, readings, poetry and reminiscences, we tell their story in a shared experience of reflection.
I offer non-religious services but am very happy to include any spiritual references, words or music that will bring comfort while respectfully representing the beliefs of your loved one. Using information gathered during a meeting, online or phone conversation, I will write a service that is a true representation of the person you have lost. The script will be sent for your approval and any amendments made at your suggestion.
If anyone would like to take part by presenting readings, prayers or music, I will liaise with them and offer guidance so that the ceremony can run as smoothly as possible.
If you would like to discuss how we can make your loved one’s funeral a unique and special occasion, please contact me.
Celebration of life memorial service
Recently, it might not have been possible to give your loved one the send off you, or they, would have liked. Restrictions in numbers means many have not had the chance to share memories and express condolences face to face.
Once some time has passed, and we are able to gather in greater numbers, you may feel more able to celebrate your loved one’s life and to include a wider circle of people who were influenced by them but missed the chance to show respect by attending the funeral.
Holding a service of remembrance, memorial service or celebration of life ceremony is the perfect way to honour the person who has passed. Unlike a funeral, time and venue restrictions do not apply.
As a civil celebrant, I am able to write the eulogy and help you structure the service. I can liaise with anyone wanting to participate and can act as the master of ceremonies on the day.
If you are thinking of marking the loss of someone dear to you in this way, please contact me to discuss how we can turn your ideas into a memorable occasion.
“Thank you so much for your time, guidance and going above and beyond to make sure that xxx’s ceremony is just as we wanted it, and that it is a true reflection of the person she was. I wanted to recognise the excellent and professional way that you have worked alongside us – it has been comforting and reassuring at all times.”
— Carol & Sue, London
“I wanted to write and thank you again for such a lovely service. Several of the family have asked me to say thank you on their behalf as well. You managed the service superbly whilst the family and friends dealt with their own grief in very personal ways. Your counsel and support for me was a great strength throughout the process.”
— Ian, London